Loyalty to your Chapter
#1
Posted 25 September 2012 - 03:36 AM
#2
Posted 25 September 2012 - 03:56 AM
The fact of the matter is that people lose morale when they see things falling apart. I know where you come from ; loyalty is truly a huge thing. However, when it comes to a game/community like this, where else do you have to turn? For instance, I am a Blood Angel thru-and-thru. However, due to an internal conflict with that chapter I decided it was best to leave than try to suffer through it. As such I have set out to seek something new. What it boils down to is that people enjoy playing with others and when the people you play with are no longer enjoyable you try to move along. Sure it would be awkward for me to change colors from a Son of Sanguinius to say.. a Space Wolf - It's unheard of in the lore, yet this isn't lore driven.
Now, I can understand what you mean as far as jumping ship. The current issues with the Black Templars (For reference) simply leaves us all a little worried and concerned. It's very sad to see so many people unwilling to stick around and help rebuild and would rather leave for a better-standing chapter, but that's the way of things sadly. Maybe they have been willing but lack proper leadership to band them together? Perhaps they have proper leadership yet lack the drive of the members to reignite the fire? Many of us have offered our assistance, but things like this have to be dealt with internally. It truly, truly is sad to see a chapter fall apart, or a guild, or just a group of friends - but it is what it is. People get unhappy, they lose morale, they lose drive, and they move along.
As far as offering someone to leave another Chapter for their own just to bolster their numbers or increase their ranks, that is a tactic as old as war itself. This will never cease - especially in online gaming. You can't really deny the act of it's tactical use, but you also can't look up for those who are bribed. I can agree with you there. -nod- However this is just something that has to be dealt with by the people involved.
Referring to this site in regards to the 'crud' spoken here : Isn't that true about any community? There is always something about a group that others will dislike and look down upon. Regardless of the things that are spoken, do you know what I see when I come here every day? A group of friends, some rivals, and people that have welcomed me with open arms since day one. I think it is a great community that has some rough edges...but what is a comfortable quilt if not for a few frays and a few odd colors thrown in the mix?
I feel that your intentions are valiant, but again, without a little modesty it will instill a disgruntled atmosphere. Also try tapping the space bar a bit and watching your punctuation. I had to drink a little beer to not obtain a headache. Just poking fun, of course.
Thank you for your words, brother.
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#3
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:06 AM
On xbox freinds are different and real,true friens are even more rare,if they exist at all
#4
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:30 AM
"If Death is Victory, how Afraid of Life can we be!"-OH, SLEEPER
#5
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:42 AM
#6
Posted 25 September 2012 - 05:50 AM
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Together with our hellish hate,
We'll burn you all--That is your fate!
#7
Posted 25 September 2012 - 06:20 AM
A Guilty conscience needs no accuser
The Templars have had their fare share of ship jumpers, so don't be so quick to push back bud.
What must be remembered is this is a game. Everyone has made valid points, as they say, to each his own. Do what makes the game fun for you I say.
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#8
Posted 25 September 2012 - 06:40 AM
Swapping chapter regularly rightly causes issues, however it is unfair to ask any one member to stay in a chapter they are unhappy with, or to hold them back from their desired chapter.
As Gerhart said, you (every member) should be in the chapter which makes you the happiest. Whether you judge this based on friendship, gamestyle or even just the fluff does not change the truth of the statement.
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#9
Posted 25 September 2012 - 01:15 PM
An example being when I was leading the Templars and we absorbed the Red Hands, an unofficial Gothic wars chapter led by my friend Mykael. Mykael held the rank of 3rd Crusade Castellan(Captain) in the Templars. However, I didn't give him that offer when he joined, I didn't offer him anything other than a bunch of players to play with, but I gave him that position because he A.He deserved it, B. He is obviously capable of leadership, since we absorbed his clan of 8 people, and C.It was a show of respect and brotherhood.
Is it fair , for a member who is unhappy with how the faction is being run, how it’s members act, or if he is feeling alone or unwelcome to go towards another clan that may suit him better, to be told that he is not allowed to do such a thing without being criticized by others, who simply do not understand his side?
Your posting and talking about what you have seen and heard only by word of mouth from others. Many people have done this in the last few days, if not weeks, but it's important that you all remember that before you make a judgment, you need to get the full side of the story. Otherwise, you leave yourself open to manipulation and ignorance.
People leave when they are unhappy ,when they look for better opportunities, or simply because they wish to go where their friends have gone. Everyone has their reasons, and that reason is their own. I know that many Templars have left to go with other chapters, not because they believe in that chapter or the one they came from, but simply because that's where their friends are.
People,this is a community founded upon friendship and similar taste in games and lore. We need to remember that everyone has a right to pursue what makes them happy. We have no right to judge them otherwise.
That's all I have to say about that.
#10
Posted 25 September 2012 - 02:07 PM
This is not a dig at anyone one person or chapter or meant as an insult to anyone. It is observations made based on things here and various conversations. The core message should be taken that loyalty to your chapter should be high on your priorities when joining a group. Things do change but people should take care when choosing to join a group and make sure the do it for the right reasons. To do otherwise may lead to early departures and loyalty questioned.
Damn few, and they're all dead!
#11
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:19 PM
Can't tell if serious.
Someone lock this thread.
It was just a poor attempt at flamebait.
If I didn't know better I'd think him to be Dern.
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#12
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:25 PM
#13
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:48 PM
If you do wish to leave your chapter, be upfront about it. Explain your motivations and others will respect you for it.
Speaking from experience of chapter members leaving under questionable circumstances (those involved shall remain nameless) it serves nothing but to aggravate the ongoing members. Honesty is the best policy in all regards.
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#14
Posted 25 September 2012 - 04:48 PM
I have found that there is a group of people from all over Gothic Wars that I genuinely like, and then there are those I think are total asshats, my tactic? I play with the guys and girls I like, and don't play with the ones I don't. I know this sounds way too logical for the internet, but fuck me if it doesn't work.
My point is, in the grim darkness of the 41st Millennium, you join a Chapter and fight to the death against the enemies of Man, you'd be a super human, and the battle would decide the fate of billions, this is important. In the grim darkness of XBOX Live, nothing you do matters to anyone but you, and if you don't enjoy it, stop. It's not rocket science, but it sure does seem like many find it hard to grasp.
#15
Posted 25 September 2012 - 06:38 PM
@first post.
Can't tell if serious.
Someone lock this thread.
It was just a poor attempt at flamebait.
If I didn't know better I'd think him to be Dern.
Thanks for waiting for him to clarify his position and make his post more readable before jumping to conclusions. Not to mention my post before you giving a bit more context to his position. Honestly this is one of the first posts I've considered reporting!
WaRTroll is a person who respects loyalty above most other things when it comes to people. This translates into his views on Chapters. We all acknowledge that things change over time but how you act when they do will shape the image people have of you.
By ensuring that you are comfortable with a Chapter before signing on with them you will have less chances of things going sour later. I have seen too many people just join the first group to ask them without looking into what that group is about and who it's members are. This has happened in all Chapters I am sure, the Deathwatch no exception.
When things change in a group it is up to you to make sure your leaving is really the right thing. It is easy to leave when it is tough but sticking it out can be rewarding in the long run if things improve. If they don't be honest about it. If you joined because of friends and then leave with them you are showing loyalty to the crew you play with. Which in my opinion trumps any Chapter loyalty as those are your friends while many Chapter brothers may be acquaintances as best.
Take Ko and the Imperial Fists for example. He and others were Deathwatch first because of our attitude and his matched. Unfortunately our gaming times did not match up resulting in little chance to play as a group with him. He didn't quit, he asked permission to leave and take the members who were in the same time zone with him. This showed his loyalty and respect for us while ensuring he was able to play the game with a crew. Everything was transparent and our Chapter is happy for his success. Hope you don't mind me using this example Ko but it help show my point.
I hope WarTroll will be on later so he can fix up his first post per our chat the other day and I also hope others reading this stop jumping to conclusions that this is an attack on them or their Chapter. This is about individuals and a request for them to consider their actions and how those actions (or lack of action) can be interpreted when it comes to their loyalty.
Now lets go join our brothers and kick some ass online!
Damn few, and they're all dead!
#16
Posted 25 September 2012 - 07:14 PM
I was able to read his post [albeit with difficulty] and he made his position very clear.
I just don't believe that he's making a serious post.
The way it's presented, as well as the grammar, leaves me with the impression of a joke post.
I just can't take it seriously.
Also, let me remind you that this is just a game.
There is no need to have a go at people for 'disloyalty' etc.
If they want to play with other people, who are you [not aimed at anyone specific] to hold it against them?
It is just a game. Lighten up.
The Unforgiven shall be redeemed.
The Fallen will be purged.
#17
Posted 25 September 2012 - 07:23 PM
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